Dead Like Me

i have a friend who’s so inlove with her gf now, beforehand he has a gf who’s much younger than he was, the relationship didn’t last long. scenario is, my friend has to go to his parents at the US and they’ll be having a long distance realtionship, which in laymans term is we’re-together-but-i-can’t-be-with-you-all-the-time type of relationship. apparently, relationship grows because of constant communication and knowing the perosn you’re in love with more and more. in his case that didn’t happen and after a couple of months they had a problem, they split. he have to stay for 6 months and being the younger one in the realtionship she wanted to be pampered and looked after, that’s what she wanted from him which he can’t give for the next 6 months. he was down in the dumps for quite a while but then a lost love came back. after wallowing over the younger girl he then realized he loved the one that should be burried in the past. they became a couple even he’s not in manila yet, but he had a problem. the girl had a fling and she was human enough to admit it to him. time passed and my friend went home. he’s now enjoying his time with the gf he was looking for and probably will be the last gf he’ll have. i simply wish.

another male friend. he was inlove with a girl friend that was the gf of a common friend. i was pushing him to ask the girl out so he can take advantage of the situation, the bf was in the US for some time and the girl was asking my friend out. i always tell him that maybe the girl fancies her as well, but he shrugged his shoulders and said "no". hmpf! freakin’ male friend! he fancied her for a long time up until he saw his old classmate before and she has a kid. he was the godfather. then he realized that he’s inlove with the wrong girl. he told me that he’s willing to be the father of the child which the bf left as a "souviner" of their then sweet relationship. hmpf! men! i asked if he’s serious enough to do that. without batting an eyelash he said YES!

i haven’t been inlove but the people that surrounds me teaches me more that i can imagine. i am learning from their experience, i gain knowledge from their mistakes and cry over their frustrations. they say never cry over spilled milk but what if that milk is worth crying for?  what if that was the milk you were looking for a lifetime? i know crying won’t change everything but it will lessen the pain and release the hatered one shoudn’t have. falling inlove and being inlove has lots of ups and downs, you can’t find the perfect partner but learning to live with their imperfection will make the relationship perfect.

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